Time heals all it has been said. I’m not sure it does it fully but it does a good job if you allow it. The important thing is that you have to be willing to allow yourself to heal. I have seen persons holding on to things that might have happened to them ages ago and wonder why they always feel down. Sometimes we have to just let it go and allow ourselves to heal. But what happens when we don’t let go and allow the healing process to start? That can be traumatic and affects the state of your mind.
I know persons that I have wondered if they ever want to feel better emotionally or if they need to have that pain constantly? Maybe it is that I don’t like pain so I always let go. It’s not that I don’t feel the pain but it’s that I don’t want to so I let it flow through me. If I hug it up and keep it then what happens to me in the long run?
This is not only true of death of of so many other issues in your life. We might not have the ability to free ourselves from the pain but that’s when we reach out for help. Sometimes it takes a stranger or a practical friend to guide us through the quagmire. As I said in the beginning you have to be willing to let go and heal. The saying of letting go and letting God is so true at these times. Why not hand it over instead of having it hang over you head and keep you in a vice grip? Interestingly I find it’s the persons who want to be the center of attention that will hold on to the bitter end. I know persons that will constantly talk about something that happened years ago and hold on to the wrong done to them by others. I just wonder if it makes sense to do that or slowly let it go so that we can heal. I guess it’s the personality that determines how we handle problems. I don’t mean that you should bury your head in the sand and ignore the issues. I just thing you have to slowly move them from you so that you are not weighed down and not sure where to go and how to cope.
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Healing takes time, my method has been God who tells me when and how to let go to heal and it has been my source of strength, if I keep it inside it will make me bitter
Yes it takes time, no doubt about that.
Let yourself heal and let go the as you say, the bitterness because we need to be whole.