Have you ever felt that no matter how you try it’s as if you are hitting your head against a brick wall when trying to get through to some persons. It’s as if you want to just give up and allow them to win. When do you do that? Or is it that you hold on to the end no matter what? We have always been told that we never give up no matter what. But real life is different. I have realized that I cope better when I just let go and let them do their thing. We have always been told that letting go/giving up is really us failing but for me that might not be the way to look at it. For me when I let go they feel that they have won and I get peace of mind. Am I being too simplistic in my outlook?
Letting go doesn’t mean that you have failed it just means you are willing to let get of the baggage and turn to something new. You are simply stepping away from the crazy and moving towards something that might open new areas in your life. You might have changed and stepping away from what was there before allows you to pull new things in your life that could lead to a change that helps you move in that new direction.
It’s a similar thing with where your life takes you and the things that used to be important. What might have been important to you could have changed. When that happens it’s not that you have let go of what you wanted it’s just that what you want changed. Letting go allows you to bring all that you want and need to the fore and move along that new path. Holding on will just hold you back in every sense of the word. Letting go allows you to focus on the present and what truly matters to you.
I have been in situations recently that I had to weigh the pros and cons of what I had to do. Should I continue as it is now or do I pivot and take myself in a totally new direction. At the end of the day it’s about my peace of mind and so therefore I was willing to let go and just give up. I didn’t feel as if I had given up on my cherihed principles and ideals it just felt as if I had done a realignment. I felt better and I was now in a new place. Standing in that new space allowed me to reevaluate my priorities. What I originally wanted was something totally different and I think I have grown in my ideas and beliefs. Sometimes we have to let go and let God.
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I agree. We have to decide whether to pivot, push, or totally let go based on situation. Perseverance is not always about staying and trying. It is also about letting go to persevere with reaching your goal via another route.
It is usually a major decision, hold on or let go. Continue or pivot. It’s our decision to make.
If it’s one thing I’ve learned over the years, it’s that life is always about change. Actually, change may be the only true constant in life.
As we grow and learn, we evolve (or should at least try to) and adapt to our environment. It is only through this process that we successfully navigate life and maintain our sanity.
Birth, childhood, adolescence, adulthood, childbearing and old age all come with their own unique challenges and opportunities. So whether it’s about situations, circumstances or more generally about life, it’s less important to think in terms of giving up or winning and losing. It’s far more important to think about your path and what best suits your life. Maybe that person or situation you’re butting heads with is not what is most effective in achieving your goals. Adapt and evolve or as we say in modern parlance, do you!!!
You are so right, change is the only constant. Got to do me as you say. When I do it allows me to see what is best for me and makes my life more efficient. It’s then that I can let go and let God.
I agree that change is the only constant:) and that applies to self-growth. Self- growth: mentally, emotionally & spiritually requires change. It’s our ability to look inward, & work on (let go) of what needs pruning or weeding/removal. Self is the only person we have control over. I therefore do not believe letting go is failure, nor is it a loss. I cannot control others so I choose to hear them, validate, & if solicited, provide a response…and move on. Life presents us with choices – sometimes when in a chaotic situation it’s difficult to see a way out..but, choices are available- & sometimes we have to let go of a choice that no longer benefits us, & choose otherwise. Letting go is part of the journey we call life.:))
Thanks so much. Let go and let God and continue the journey. It might change but just work with it.