Last week someone reacted to my blog and reminded me that I just needed to do me and ignore others. Thinking about it I know it can be done but it’s not as easy as it sounds. I realized that doing what you need to do for yourself is so different often from what you might be told what you have to do. How do you make a decision? This decision to take care of you often happens as we get older. I noticed that so often we get to the stage where we just don’t care as we get older. Is it that we don’t care or is it that we now see things more clearly with age? I saw something where someone claimed that because they care less what others think of them as they got older, they seem to enjoy life more.
Instead of butting heads with others or throwing up my hands and giving in to the frustrations and walking away from what you might not like do we just look within and just do me. What happens if we don’t like what we see within do we change or continue as we are? Self analysis is extremely important to understand who we are and where we are going. I have to ask myself what do I want and where do I want to go. How do I make the time to sit and do an analysis of what is happening around me and where I want to go.
As I sit here writing it dawns on me that what happens when you don’t know who you are then how do you do you? How do you make sure that you are grounded and know the direction in which you should head.
Let me know what you think, I really want to know and I sure others do too. Try commenting 👍🏽, but if you are not comfortable, reach out to me via any medium. Your comments let me know how you feel and very often give me a total different perspective on the topic. It could also spawn another blog. 😉. And you can never tell your comment might help others. But
Always remember life is for living and you must always live your best life. #lifeisforliving #liveyourbestlife #gratefulforlife #faithgreaterthanfear
See you next Wednesday at 8:00 pm, Bogota time.
I would love it if you would say something, anything and tell someone. 🙏🏽
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You are quite correct. Oftentimes as we grow and mature, we tend to transform into what society expects of us, moreover shaped by our upbringing at the core of it all, and the need to fit in as we aspire to great things.
But as we age, our bodies and minds start to show us how important self care is, and that we don’t need to (any longer) please people.
It’s now my time.
Love that for us all.
Self care is so important. My take is as long as we figure out that’s it’s a must I feel we win. As you said, “it’s now my time.”
This is so so so true
I Love it
Thanks so much. Self love is so important. 🙏🏽