I don’t know if you know anyone that no matter what happens to them it’s always someone else’s fault. They never accept responsibility for anything in their life. I try to move away from people like that as they are negative and drain you. What I want to say to them is you are the one that determines your destiny. No one else. Stop blaming others for your “misfortune(s).” Step up and accept whatever life throws at you. It’s up to you if you will work with it or throw it back. You need to realize that no matter what;
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of my soul.
This is the only part of the poem Invictus by William Ernest Henley that I can ever remember. But it’s can really have you look inward. That’s if you are brave enough. Are you willing to look deep and make changes if you don’t like what you see?
I know too many persons that are always right and no matter what happens it’s “your fault”. It’s almost impossible to talk to persons like that as they know it all and are always right. How can you grow if you are not learning and are always right? It’s not possible today to think you can achieve anything without being a perpetual learner. Life is not as simple as it used to be.
Let me know what you think. Are you willing to continue learning or do you know it all? If you realize that you never accept responsibility what will you do about it? If you have someone like that in your life, how do you deal with them?
See you next Wednesday at 8:00 pm.
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Andrea you hit the nail on the head with this topic..to summarize “bad workmen blame their tools”.. it is a current challenge that I am experiencing with a staff member even when the evidence is there no form of accepting. I still continue to try coaching and also by seeking divine guidance. Regarding Invictus..the movie is a must watch as the theme potrayed is unity. Keep the thoughts flowing my friend
No one can decide your destiny but you. Hopefully that person will realize before it’s too late that it’s not that anyone is out to get them but they have to accept that it’s your fault and not someone else.