When we decide the changes we will make in our lives and how we will make them it should be noted that we do this for ourselves and no one else. We should make changes for what we want done in our lives and should not be dependent on what others think should be happening.
When we allow others to determine what’s right, best and important for us then we lose all self respect and control. You’re not being selfish thinking that what you want is the most important thing for you. You are being kind to yourself.
It’s strange but as I was getting used to 2023 here come 2024 like a bullet train. Sigh, what to do? I will just embrace it and hold on for dear life.
It’s the only time of year that you will have some persons showing that they are not as unapproachable and gruff as they appear the rest of the year. Is it a front or do they allow the festivities and feelings of the Christmas to just take them over and or overwhelm them?
I have seen persons holding on to things that might have happened to them ages ago and wonder why they always feel down. Sometimes we have to just let it go and allow ourselves to heal.
Only you can determine your state of mind or let’s rephrase that, only you should. Try not to have anyone else control your way of thinking. When they do it’s to their benefit and your detriment. Have you ever seen persons trying to control someone else? It’s an interesting situation.