…On July 19, 2018 I did my first blog. As I look back on the six years since that first blog I like what I see. I think I have grown because of the writing that has become a part of me. Who would have thought before that I would be publishing a blog every week….
…I understand the need to question whatever is presented to you but not like that. When you think like that it pushed you into a downward spiral of negative thoughts. Is it worth it at the end of the day? I don’t think so. After all life is for living and living with joy and grace, after all we are blessed, whether you believe it or not….
“…. I continued in my mother’s footsteps in how I deal with my children. Yes I would push them but not to the level where they are on the verge of breaking. All I need to know that they are putting out the best they can. …”
…I know many persons will say it’s by design because God doesn’t make mistakes and everything happens for a reason. Is that really true? Does everything really happen for a reason or do things just happen by accident? Are there really accidents?…
…as I’ve always said you have to take care of your mental health and guard it jealously. Don’t let anyone try to pierce the bubble that you put around yourself. They will gaslight you and make you doubt yourself and sometimes even your own sanity………It’s not a nice feeling and that’s when you need people you can trust as they make that difference. They form that cocoon around you and make sure you are comfortable in your own skin.
He and I argued a lot because I just figured he was not the boss of me and so therefore should not be telling me what to do. He didn’t care that I was grown. The fact is I am my father’s child and I figure that’s why we butted heads just a little too often.