I had to guard my mental health jealously. If I didn’t I would have slipped into an area that I didn’t want to be and I would be the one to get hurt. I really had to struggle to make sure I was taking care of me. Over time it became easier.
I know you think you are being cutthroat and ruthless because that’s the way life is but I would say you should proceed with caution because when you dig a hole for someone dig one for yourself too because your time will come and you will fall in that hole.
You know some people can’t understand when you move away from them when they break trust. After all it was just a one time thing. No that’s not how things work when you break that fragile thread then it takes ages to try weaving it back together.
Everything starts out small and then evolve from there. It’s up to us to decide which ones we allow to take over and which ones are discarded.
Just like I said last week that I don’t like physical clutter it’s the same thing for mental clutter. I don’t like it. My mind doesn’t work well in confusion.