So I was talking to a friend and she was talking about pulling weeds from her garden. She talked about taking her time so as to get the roots so that they wouldn’t grow back. You could spray them but you have to be careful because sometimes you kill the lawn as someone I know did. There are some that nothing you use can kill them those you definitely have to pull by hand. I thought removing weeds from the garden is just like pulling the naysayers and the energy vampires from our lives. If you don’t remove them they will stay there and multiply and no matter what you do they are hard to get rid of unless you ensure you get the root. They sometimes choke the life out of the plants we have put there, similarly the energy vampires will choke the life out of any enthusiasm you might have. Get rid of them for your own benefit.

It’s the negative behavior and comments that are like the weeds in your life. If you don’t remove them and or their behavior from your life they will suck the life from you. Sometimes it’s not the easiest thing to do as you don’t want to hurt feelings or they entrench themselves so well you find it hard to get rid of them. They reminds you of a lipoma that you might be afraid to remove in case you take blood vessels along with it which could be detrimental to your health. The thing is it’s also detrimental to your health if you leave it there because sooner or later it gets too large and threaten your blood flow to that area of the body that it’s growing.

These persons might not on the surface look as if they threaten your physical health but they do because your mental health and spiritual health affect your physical health in many ways. There is no way you should just sit complaining about what chaos they are creating in your life, you need to do something about limiting their impact. Know that if you don’t stop them they will continue to create issues in your life. Remember it’s your life and you should have full control. Don’t wait until you are at the stage of crisis before you do something about the naysayers in your life. Kick them out and take care of you.

Let me know what you think, I really want to know and I sure others do too. Try commenting 👍🏽, but if you are not comfortable, reach out to me via any medium. Your comments let me know how you feel and very often give me a total different perspective on the topic. It could also spawn another blog. 😉. And you can never tell your comment might help others. But

Always remember life is for living and you must always live your best life. #lifeisforliving #liveyourbestlife #gratefulforlife #faithgreaterthanfear

See you next Wednesday at 8:00 pm, Bogota time.

I would love it if you would say something, anything and tell someone. 🙏🏽