How hard is it to say those words. I know some persons that are “know it alls” so they never say those words. No matter the topic they know the answer. Even worst when they consider it their area of expertise.
These people never listen to others. That can and usually is a disaster. They are the only ones that know and all should defer to them. Sigh, they can make life hard. How does one handle persons like that? Is it even worth trying to get them on the same page with you or do you leave them to their own devices? Well I usually try putting forward my ideas but if I realize I’m hitting my head against a brick wall I back away. It makes no sense pushing these persons. They will only stand firm and then push back. In my mind it’s not worth the fight.
What I have realized is that persons like this drain your energy and that’s not good. So I focus my energy on other persons and in other directions. As it’s said “you can lead a horse to water but you can’t force him to drink.” The person has to know that what they are doing is frustrating others in order to make the change. You can’t do that for them, a person can’t be helped unless they want to be helped even worst if they can’t see that they are creating problems. If they are a know it all then they are always right and so of course there are no problems.
Do you know persons like this and if you do how do you interact with them? What’s the best way to deal with persons like this? You know I interact with them in the smallest way possible and don’t allow them to come within my positive space. I have to stay away from the “energy vampires.” But do you do that or do you always try to get them to see your side of the coin? What happens when that doesn’t happen? Do you still try or do you then walk away? Is it fine to just walk away or have you given up too easily? I would say in a situation such as this that it’s ok to let go. Peace of mind is a lovely thing. 😉
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For some the words I don’t know shows vulnerability. For me it shows that you’re open to growth and not afraid to open yourself up to criticism which will lead to learning.
I think it’s the fear of showing that vulnerability that prevents the ability to say those words. Heaven forbid you show that you don’t know it all. What a way to live.🤦🏾♀️